A DATE with DESTINY

A girl can always be a friend to a boy but a girlfriend can never be a friend to a boy because she is someone who shares a close relationship, more closer than what a friend shares, as it involves confiding, silent conversations, etc etc taking place between them every day, so it is more of a life sharing process happening than usual friendship. That’s why a girlfriend is always special.

It is that we never get an advanced intimation or do we intimate any one of our entry into this world nor do we get an opportunity to share the information of our exit from this world… its the same thing with love... we don't know when we fall in love in our life [or out of it later]... love of varied hues, forms, colours, etc etc. No one has any idea as to how love happens but it happens automatically. It is a special feeling which keeps flowing. I would say one should be lucky enough to fall in love, at least once in a life time to experience [in a different context, I don’t recommend anyone to fall in love only to experience it because love is a sensitive and sensible word, more of religious sentiment with its own religion and one has to live it wholeheartedly in order to feel the depth of it] or live those special moments with someone who suddenly becomes so close to one's heart that everyone else falls a mile apart from the heart.

Obviously, the exclusive rights would be handed over after few brief conversations and understandings of the proprietary ownership of this SOUL/SOLE [not a part of leg here... SOLE is…you know what it is, right? Good]. We love a flower and then we leave that flower when it loses its power because its gone forever, drying up waiting to die and then we watch it fly through the thin air in front of our eyes, never to come back again with the same gusto...if love dries up with the flower then it isn’t real love. With our natural mother and father [not NATURE, okay! The one who've given birth to 'us', 'us' in the sense my Mother-Father, your Mother-Father, everyone's their own Mother-Father, hope you got it...], we love our parents. Some love their parents because there is no other thing except loving, some only because they have got enough reserves of survival in the form of Parents-M-Power [empowering money power], some because they don’t love anyone else, girls because they are more attached and are more under equipped protagonists through the natural order strictly made to follow by the crooks of old generation but who are slowly shedding this image of dependency in a phased manner [but will take many decades or centuries to come over...] etc etc. The love with parents is an eternal bonding, a unique relationship enjoyed by everyone [if only one realizes] which stays on with us forever. But loving a girl? …is a totally different affair.

So where was I? Yes, you see love is such a beautiful thing that you keep on talking and talking and talking, always getting off the track from the main theme of the talk. Drifting is such a common thing when in love that you will enjoy every damn thing even if it the worst thing one only hated a couple of days or months back.....love is a beautiful thing. You need to be in it in order to enjoy it and the one who hasn't fallen in it will obviously never understand the beauty of it.

In simple, education helps us exist in this world in a knowledgeable manner to wade our way through all the educated freaks in this ocean of competition, which again teaches life in a formatted way, making us understand the implications of not going through the coded path of studies and all that but, it is only one of the ways through which we understand our life... because LIFE, the term as it is, is such a big thing, is such a great teacher [because it is ruled by NATURE] that whether one is educated or uneducated has no place in the process of life skills…..the power to survive, to exist, to live, to love, to see, etc etc is automatically supplied to everyone equally. Depending on one’s capacity to take things, one enjoys life to that extent. Which again means everyone writes his own life story.


Experience is experience. It does not have tags of any kind attached to it. There is nothing like educated experience or uneducated experience...its all a perception created by this world [not NATURE but PEOPLE of this world] there are no strings attached to LOVE... Love is LOVE.


The whole conversation would be understood by the end of this writing but I am disclosing, unraveling the theme without any waste of time: I wanted to write about the wonderful feeling I had when I went on a date with my girlfriend. She was really "a date with destiny". But I don’t think I can write about it.

A DATE WITH DESTINY… At the first look and the following meetings I felt she is my destiny. Don't you think so? I am supposed to live my rest of my life with this girl and she is the one who is steering the boat of my life with the sheer power of love, my destiny is in the hands of love, the eternally flowing, undeniably interesting, dating destiny...is such a big thing, that one has to be in love in order to understand love because it is such a beautiful thing that one always drifts away as it keeps flowing, flowing till the power keeps it going, going.

My drifting away from the main theme of this writing is the testimony to the thing in talk; my drifting away is something small compared to the word 'LOVE' which itself is such a big thing. One warning note to everyone here: there's a deep difference between infatuation, lust and other connected synonyms and LOVE singly is a big thing. Interest...liking...loving...may be something, something. It isn't a mind game, it's a heart game in conjunction with the mind [although both the parts are played by the brain itself in a dual role, BRAIN IS A NATURAL MULTI-TASKER], and it is very rare to observe the intricate games being played by it. But when one is aware of the thing when in love will definitely see the differences... It is such a beautiful thing that we always forget everything when we are in love because it keeps flowing and flowing and flowing and one keeps drowning, drowning, drowning in love, lost, drifting away from this world, into a world of its own where only two hearts [two brains through wireless transmission in fact] exist and everyone else, everything else from this universe vanishes away in a flash of a second...

Every man should fall in love because Love makes life beautiful.

I had a date with my destiny lately. [Results undisclosed because of the secrecy and sensitivity of the act.]

Last, whatever may be the thing but LIFE stops for no one, it goes on and on and on…

P.S: hmm...